I know many of you especially to my Christian sisters and brothers, who
desperately want
to get married are probably thinking, “how can you enjoy your
time in your singleness?”.Trust me, it can be done. Before you can truly enjoy your life to the
fullness during your single years, there are two things that must be done. Now
I’m not saying that your desire for a mate will disappear but these two
important things will give you a peace about your situation. When these two
things are met, you will be able to free yourself of any anxious and depressive
feelings and then live the full life that God intends for you to have. The
first thing is that you should have a strong relationship with Jesus Christ and
the second thing is to simply love yourself.
I want you to sit
back and ponder about what I’ve just said.
Let it resonate in your mind. I’m going to ask you a very important
question. Do you feel that once you meet
your husband/wife that you will feel complete or that life will be better? If you answered no, then I’m happy that you
are content with yourself and that you don’t need a man/woman to validate you. On the other hand, if you answered yes, then
you are looking for love in all the wrong places. Either your relationship with
Christ isn’t as strong as you thought, you aren’t happy with yourself or both.
It is very important to understand that only God can fill that void that is
empty in your life. If you feel that people or things are supposed to make you
happy, then I’m sorry to inform you that you will be disappointed. Yes, they may make you happy at times, but
people will disappoint you. It’s because they are human and no one is perfect.
Phillipians 4: 11 says “ Not that I speak in respect of
want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.”
During this time, enjoy being
with you, your family, and friends. Yes, I said enjoy being with you. It’s okay to spend time just enjoying
yourself and God. It's nothing wrong with taking yourself to the movies or dinner.
I Corinthians 7: 34 says, “There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried
woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and
in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she
may please her husband.”
When you are married, you may not have time to do all that you want to do, so while you are single just live life to the fullest.
Here are some ways to enjoy your time!
- Develop your relationship with Christ even more.
- Travel.
- Learn a new language.
- Become more involved in your church.
- Volunteer.
- Go on a mission trip.
- Learn a new hobby or hobbies.
- Become a mentor.
- Be proactive in your community.
- Participate in a 5k.
And the list goes on. There are so many ways to
have a fulfilled life. In conclusion, I want to challenge you
to live that fulfilled life while allowing the Holy Spirit to guide
you. Proverbs 3:6 says “ In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall
direct thy paths.”
* NOTE: I
am a person that LOVES to travel and recently I had the privilege to go
to Germany. The two pics that are on this post are from my trip.
Your Sister in Christ,